If you have decided that you wish to live off-campus
during your college years, it is likely that you are wondering whether to have
a roommate or not. Off-campus accommodation comes with many perks, including
ample parking and the ability to live independently without constant
supervision. There are certain questions that you need to ask yourself when
thinking of whether to share your room/lease or whether to live alone.
Can
you afford it?
This is usually the first question that comes to mind
when one is required to live off-campus, and the main reason why people all
over the world decide to split rent. Many college students will decide to share
their apartments because they need help coming up with the rent. So if you have
a feeling that individual leasing is going to be an issue, you might want to
get someone with whom you can share these costs. If lease payment is not an
issue, then move along to the next question.
If you have a hard time sharing space with someone,
you might want to live alone, at least until you can comfortably learn to share
space. Sometimes, there are conflicts between roommates not because one is bad,
but because two very different personalities met and clashed.
How
big is the shared space?
Of course, you might be capable of sharing but it so
happens that you are confined to a very tiny space; which makes existing as two
separate individuals rather tricky. As such, you must consider how big the
apartment you wish to lease is. This way, you can determine whether there will
be adequate room for the both of you.
Have
you met your potential roommate?
The semester drags on forever if you are living with
someone you do not like. It is therefore important to ensure that the person
you live with is someone you can, at the very least, get along with. If you
can, find someone you are already familiar and friends with to share the
apartment with you. This way, there will be fewer chances of nasty surprises
along the way.
Are
you clear on what your responsibilities will be?
Before you live with someone, it is important to
establish what will be required of either party. Living together blindly is the
recipe for fights later on. Lay the ground rules early enough even before you
are done unpacking. This way, if someone neglects the duties assigned to them,
they will be held accountable. And speaking of duties, one more question that
you should ask is…
How
will you operate-separately or as a unit?
You must decide whether you will carry out certain
tasks such as shopping for groceries, cooking, doing the laundry etc.
separately or together. This way, you will know whether your roommate expects
to find a cooked meal on a certain day, or whether they will bring their own
take out, and so on.
Living with a roommate in off-campus housing can be
exciting, but only if you prepare yourself well for it.
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